Like sands through the hourglass...
Wednesday, August 16, 2000
Anniversary

So... it's been a year.

Precisely one year ago, my grandfather had just died, I was in the hospital, and the family van was a wreck at the side of I-91.

The odd thing is that I still haven't written about the whole thing here.

I probably should.

But I still don't have time.

Oh, well.



And as the first year after my family's Life-Changing Event comes to a close, it seems appropriate to take stock and see how we're doing.

  • My grandfather's still dead.
  • My mother's still paralyzed from the waist down, and doesn't have very much use of the stuff above the waist either. She still needs assistance to blow her nose.
  • My forehead and eyelid are still healing, but they're both looking good these days. Especially by comparison to the way they were several months ago.
  • The van's been replaced.
  • (As an aside, 'cause I know I wondered about this when news of the Firestone recall hit the news last week... while the cause of the accident was a tire blowout, it wasn't a Firestone tire.)
  • The whole rest of the family has moved, and the new house is pretty spiffy, I guess. It's not home, but it's a nice enough place.
  • I hate cars. I hate getting rides in them. I'm a bit better with buses and trains, but I still flinch whenever I hear anything screech, or if we get within a couple feet of anything else on the road. I never much liked cars before this, but now I'm even more paranoid about 'em. If I were King of the Universe, everyone would walk.
  • Of course, that would put me out of a job, given that I take the bus to it, so never mind.
Hmm. Out of time. This'll have to do.

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